Archive for December, 2007

Dec 21 2007

How to deal with pain

From Cathy to Pammy
(request-from-pammy)

Pammy,


My younger sister was also recently diagnosed with 4th stage metastaic liver cancer with the primary being her esophagus. She too has a 5 year old son and is a single mother. Due to lack of insurance she has fallen through the cracks of the healthcare system. She is in excruciating pain and has been unable to fill the $2600 prescription for her morphine. If they don’t begin the chemo soon I fear she will not make it another week or two. I feel for you, I work in the medical field and trust me, a little knowledge is not necessarily a good thing. My sister is terrified and so am I. Anything you have to tell me as far as what happens now or any advise I’m open.

Dear Cathy,

When father had metastatic liver cancer, we opted that no pain was a priority
(no matter what, money included…).

Please contact Colin who has chronic pain and blogs about it. You can find his blog in our Lord of Pain post.

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Dec 12 2007

Request from Pammy

(read all the previous 5 posts if you don’t know about Pammy : Sad secondary liver cancer news, please give your support!)

hi pammy again,
I am quite a spiritual person but I’m not into the big man above at the moment sorry !!!!!!!,

Ann has never been a smoker or drinker as such only the odd party , her belly has been swollen now for 4 weeks her hair is very thin from the chemotherapy that has made her quite sick but she has been able to get the boys some Christmas presents and her son jack some birthday presents on her good days .

I know miracles do happen and that is more than I hope but I don’t think so this time her morphine is up to 40mg twice a day and break through tablet in between if need be also 18 other tablets through the day , I hope this next bit Is not frowned upon,

Her friends are having a benefit night on 12th Jan at acacia halls In Dartford Kent unfortunately we only have 300 tickets but they are all sold but are asking for any donation, as financial or any thing that can be auctioned or raffled to be sent to Mrs Nicola Hearn, 36 Harold Avenue, Belvedere,Kent DA17 5NL


Please give an update Pammy. I was just without words when I read your comment because father’s cancer story "played" all over again In my mind.

But I don’t have the experience of chemotherapy, so I am back and again: all my hugs for you!

Please leave an email where people can reach you Pammy!

Whoever read this: feel free to give your feedback! Sooner or later you will read something that can set your mind more at ease than It Is now…

It did give us comfort In hearing about other cancer stories!

The journey is a very though one, but one can learn that others have walked a similar journey…

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Dec 12 2007

Cancer support from Ken

Comment from "Ken" at “Sad secondary liver cancer news, please give your support!”, with answer from Metastatic Liver Cancer.


Liver cancer is best treated early.

If the cancer has spread this far, prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

I have seen cancer take three of my friends early in life. I spent every day I could with them.

If your sister is able, have her make a video for her children to watch in stages as they grow up.

It will put your sister at ease and help the children remember their mother.

Be strong,


Ken



Thanks Ken!

Spending every day you can is the most you can do!

Easier said than done since we do have obligations or so we think. Hubby did quit one of his jobs and we aren’t eating less because of that…

Whoever read this: feel free to give your feedback! Sooner or later you will read something that can set your mind more at ease than it is now…

It did give us comfort in hearing about other cancer stories!

The journey is a very though one, but one can learn that others have walked a similar journey…

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