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Dec 12 2007

Cancer stages: cancer story from Gina Hage

Comment from Gina Hage at “Sad secondary liver cancer news, please give your support!” , with answer from Metastatic Liver Cancer.


I am just trying to research this liver cancer thing

My x husband has it and has refused treatment we have 3 kids together and he is just biding his time. I am wondering what are the stages? He believes in God and wants to just go home to be with the Lord were there is know more pain and suffering. We are believing for a miracle for his life. I know God is able HE HAS ALREADY OUTLIVED THE DOCTORS ORDERS please respond.

Metastatic liver cancer reactions

Dear Gina,

Recommended Readings about cancer and cancer stages:

The above summarized say that the smaller the cancer and the more it can be localized on 1 place, the better the chances of recovery.

When it comes to terminal cancer like with my father, first thing as usual is ask your doctors.

Father wanted to fight the cancer, but there were no "weapons" left… So from that moment on the stages were: angry but more or less ok, to painful, to very painful, to very sick until he passed away peacefully.

The stages for mom were: being a caretaker "no matter what". Just to find out that she had a torn ligament due to carrying father in and out the bed. Then comes the stage of grief…

People want to live and be surrounded with their loved ones. At the moment father saw that mother was surrounded with all her loved ones, he changed this painful life to a pain-free life.

Whoever read this: feel free to give your feedback! Sooner or later you will read something that can set your mind more at ease than it is now…

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Nov 27 2007

Pammy’s Liver cancer story : please give your hugs!

Pammy wrote a month ago about her sister being diagnosed with an aggressive secondary liver cancer at Sad secondary liver cancer news, please give your support!

She then left a message which I will quote below asking "is anybody reading this?"…

Please if you are reading this: leave a comment!

If you have no clue what to say, just write "yes I am reading this"

Pammy’s quote

Yes there must be a God apparently he made my beautiful little sister and her little boy’s now he’s gonna take her back so i’m no big fan right now!

Ann has had her 3rd chemo 5 hours worth it has knocked her off her feet she has swelled quite a lot but her has not been increased yet but her pain is a bit worse and reality has kicked in she is very emotional , she has more chemo 12th dec then scan 17th so some good news right on Christmas wouldn’t go a miss x

Does anyone actually read this?

I feel as though i’m on my own so useless , helpless , worthless I know i’m not the only 1 to go through this I’m struggling emotionally any pointers ,

pammy x

Dear Pammy

In difficult moments like these, you still quote that you know that others are going through this as well… Meaning that you are a caring person, and that’s the worth you need to empower.

Also don’t "downsize" your story by comparing to others…

The feelings of useless, helpless, worthless are very recognizable, add to that "anger". We had a lot of "anger" that could burst out for no reason towards somebody that apparently didn’t do anything wrong.

You need to do what you feel is right, embrace life and know that life will end sooner or later with everybody. It’s just that we are so focused on "later"…

In the case of father, I "just asked him" what he wanted me to do now that I was there having traveled from far.

"Nothing" he said….

It is then up to you to have a look around and see what more you can do than "nothing", because all extra you can do is a bonus!

During those days: I invented the "that’s a good plan" sentence… Be it a "short term good plan" like buying a desert father , be it a "long term good plan" like organizing palliative care takers…

In the case of your sister: the "short term good plans’ are the daily things she enjoys in life, the "long term good plan" would be an assurance that her 2 boys will be taken care for.

Pammy: please keep in touch and try to find more people that had cancer or have a loved one with cancer: they have a much more realistic approach towards all what’s happening than the people without the experience.

Like father’s doctor said: it’s in the end quite easy for me to tell you your father has cancer, because I live here between my 4 white walls and I go home in the evening. You guys have the difficult task of making decisions and doing things you most likely never ever spend enough thinking about, let alone have a solution for…

Please give pammy a hug and leave a comment!


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Sep 20 2007

Alicia Silverstone naked

Alicia Silverstone is bare naked (and for sure not bear naked…)

alicia silverstone naked

Alicia Silverstone naked, so you should be too???

Eat more vegetables because
meat does rot in your intestines increasing your risk of having colon cancer!

(dad has colon cancer)

Why is Alicia Silverstone topless?

Why is Alicia Silverstone naked? Euhm, seems she loves animals and when Alicia sees a steak, it makes her feel sad and sick because right away, she sees her dog… The last time I heard about a person seeing her dog when there was a steak on her plate, a few days later she was running nude in the streets and luckily unharmed put away in a psychiatric hospital to calm her down (that’s polite to say they gave her Haldol).

Why is Alicia Silverstone really naked?

Because we live in a sick society where Alicia Silverstone porn gets her noticed, so we need to use porn to get our message through.

It would be great if we used naked bodies of women with amputated breasts to make some more awareness of what breast cancer can do to people!

What can Alicia Silverstone teach us about colon cancer?

It is well known that meat eaters are more susceptible to get colon cancer compared with non meat eaters. So in order to prevent colon cancer, I would advice you to eat less meat. Looking at our teeth we are not complete vegetarians, so like with all things in a healthy life: eat in moderation.

Also being vegetarian but having to breath in the extreme polluted city air is not going to help you much in preventing getting other cancers.

And make sure when you eat vegetables, they should be organic vegetables. Don’t believe the chemical industry that tells you how much of pesticides residue you can eat: sooner or later you will get cancer because of it. And then the
argument will be: but old people must die anyway….

Also make sure the water you drink is pure. How do you make sure when it is in a bottle? How do you make sure when all of our rivers are polluted and the rain is acid???

And why is nobody talking about cancer prevention????

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