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Dec 12 2007

Cancer stages: cancer story from Gina Hage

Comment from Gina Hage at “Sad secondary liver cancer news, please give your support!” , with answer from Metastatic Liver Cancer.


I am just trying to research this liver cancer thing

My x husband has it and has refused treatment we have 3 kids together and he is just biding his time. I am wondering what are the stages? He believes in God and wants to just go home to be with the Lord were there is know more pain and suffering. We are believing for a miracle for his life. I know God is able HE HAS ALREADY OUTLIVED THE DOCTORS ORDERS please respond.

Metastatic liver cancer reactions

Dear Gina,

Recommended Readings about cancer and cancer stages:

The above summarized say that the smaller the cancer and the more it can be localized on 1 place, the better the chances of recovery.

When it comes to terminal cancer like with my father, first thing as usual is ask your doctors.

Father wanted to fight the cancer, but there were no "weapons" left… So from that moment on the stages were: angry but more or less ok, to painful, to very painful, to very sick until he passed away peacefully.

The stages for mom were: being a caretaker "no matter what". Just to find out that she had a torn ligament due to carrying father in and out the bed. Then comes the stage of grief…

People want to live and be surrounded with their loved ones. At the moment father saw that mother was surrounded with all her loved ones, he changed this painful life to a pain-free life.

Whoever read this: feel free to give your feedback! Sooner or later you will read something that can set your mind more at ease than it is now…

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Apr 19 2007

Cancer at Virginia Tech? (2)

It is amazing to see what I wrote in my previous post about Cancer at Virginia Tech? and the words Cho Seung-Hui has recorded in one of his last videos…

Cho seung-hui

cancer virginia tech

"…you loved inducing cancer in my head, terrorizing my hearth…"
so spoke Cho Seung Hui

Look at the text below Cho Seung Hui:
Most of the casualties
are civilians

Cancer, terrorists, war on terror and you

Most of the casualties are civilians when we talk about:

  • cancer
  • terrorists
  • war on terror

I can imagine that nobody is listening to the words of Cho Seung Hui when he as any other teenager would blame "the world" for his problems.

When a Virginia court has documents saying that Cho Seung Hui is an imminent danger to himself as a result of a mental illness, why are these documents there? Why are there so many reports about cancer? Why do people have to die at Virginia tech 2 hours after a killer is on the loose? Why do every day cancer patients die? Why each day dozens of Iraqi people die due to the disappearance of 2 Twin Towers, 3000 over people and a president deciding that the axis of evil have to be destroyed?

Axis of evil… doesn’t that sound like Cho Seung Hui blaming "the world" for the problems?

How many people need to die tomorrow because of "blaming the world".

And the day after tomorrow?

We have the money, we have the technology, when do we have the people in power that make a difference?

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Jan 29 2007

The ‘nobody told me this’ metastatic liver cancer story

Says the doctor to the cancer patient:
if you have more pain:
then you take more painkillers…..

Easy…

Imagine I put your thumb in a thumbscrew and start tightening it. But I know about pain management, so I give you a painkiller just enough to ease the pain.

You say "no problem, I don’t feel any pain…".

Until the painkiller has no more effect. What do you feel? Enormous pain!!!

Says the doctor to the cancer patient:
if you have more pain:
then you take more painkillers…..

Oh yeah?…

And what about those minutes our hours the painkillers need to ease the pain?

Cancer is a disease, pain is hell…

Cancer and Tumor writers wanted

  • Father cannot write and be in pain at the same time.
  • Without pain, father sleeps, so he cannot write…

Fathers’ wish is to pass the torch to other cancer and tumor patients or friends and family of caner and tumor patients (yes, a lot of cancer patients have no strength nor the (will)-power to start writing in the first place. Let the cancer voices be heard!

Help spread the word:
invite all your friends at
Metastatic Liver Cancer
or leave a comment here to become a co-author now.

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