Oprah tries to suck out of Cynthia Nixon why she loves a woman after a 15 year relationship with a man and having 2 children with him…
The same Oprah announces Cynthia Nixon survived breast cancer, the audience goes clap-clap-clap and Oprah can’t stop digging for more juicy details about Cynthia’s new relationship…
If you don’t have cancer, you don’t know what you are talking about
It’s as simple as that. Only cancer patients and cancer care givers know what is going on.
Just like I don’t have a clue how Oprah was sexually abused and what effect it had on her.
I can only see she has a "weight" problem, so I can only imagine what happened to her in the past still has a deep impact on her today.
The same applies to cancer.
I don’t have a clue how Cynthia Nixon must have felt when she was diagnosed with breast cancer and when she underwent breast cancer treatments.
I can only see that Cynthia Nixon falls in love again and I can perfectly understand why Cynthia’s love is a woman. Because:
Cancer is a life changer.
In case of father, his metastatic liver cancer changed his life for the worst as he died because of it.
It also changed the life of father’s closest care-takers.
All of us have kind of stopped our "comfortable life" from before the cancer and are going in a seemingly very different direction now.
Seemingly, because like Cynthia says : "love is love".
Love is the only reason
why care-givers carry on
caring for their loved one with cancer.
In the end it’s all about love, and it doesn’t matter if it’s falling in love with a guy or a girl.
It’s coming to terms with yourself and not giving much of a damn about what the rest of the world might think of you.
What about clapping for cancer survivors?
Before father was diagnosed with secondary liver cancer, I watched TV shows never wondering why people would clap because e.g. :
- Cynthia Nixon survives her breast cancer treatments and
- Lance Armstrong got treated for testicular cancer that had metastasised to his brain and lungs
Cancer cure and prevention: what is there to clap about?
What is there to clap about?
Most cancer patients undergo the same or even stronger cancer treatments and unfortunately most of them die after 5 years…
You tell me: what is there to clap about?
- did somebody find a cancer cure? NO
- did somebody find the direct cause of cancer? NO
- did somebody find out how to bullet proof prevent cancer? NO
So what is there to clap about?